August 2, 2025
Karma ~ Sometimes she let’s you watch!

When I married my husband, I knew I was walking into something different. I came in bold, unfiltered, full of spirit—and that didn’t sit right with some folks. By Thanksgiving, just two months after the wedding, his family held a closed-door meeting to figure out what they were going to do about me. I wasn’t invited, but I didn’t need an invitation to know exactly what was going on behind that door.
Over the years, things didn’t get better—they got messier. One of his sisters cut up my clothes. Another pulled a gun on me. One stayed quiet and played neutral, while another was always kind. I didn’t come from softness, so I wasn’t surprised. But I did come with boundaries.
In 2018, my husband landed on a ventilator for thirteen days. He was a proud man, and I knew he wouldn’t want anyone seeing him like that. I limited visitors out of love, but it didn’t stop the rumors. They said I was poisoning him for insurance money. Not one of them sat with him, held his hand, or brought him peace. They didn’t care about him—just about the drama and the photo ops. But my village? They circled around me like armor and kept all that mess outside the door.
Then 2020 came, and his daughter—knowing exactly who I was—decided to stir the pot. She came to me with a list of people who still owed her daddy money. She wasn’t trying to help; she wanted to see what would happen next. What she counted on, though, was that I would do exactly what I’d always done: handle business. Because everybody knew—I was his collector.
One of those debts was from her cousin, his sister’s son. And his sister had co-signed the loan. When I called it in, everything changed. Suddenly I wasn’t “the wife”—I was a broke ass whore her brother should’ve never married. But let’s be clear: the loan got paid. Still, the energy shifted. The claws came out, and they took it to Facebook. I was every name but the one on my birth certificate. They brought up my past, but I’ve long made peace with my past. So I brought up theirs—and they didn’t like that one bit.
I told one of them, “Threaten me again, and I’ll file a report for terrorist threats against an elder. Hit me, and I’ll have you arrested. Lay a hand on me, and I’ll sue until you’re signing your house over to me.” She got the message.
In 2021, we found out the cancer had returned. We fought. We prayed. And when my husband passed, the real fireworks began. His family didn’t come to mourn—they came to circle like vultures. That’s when I told one of the loudest ones, “Your husband is fighting cancer, too. And soon, you’ll walk the same path I’m walking now.”
Twenty-one days later, her husband died.
The sister who once pulled a gun on me? Her husband died of cancer, too.
The one who slashed my clothes? Her husband is now fighting cancer.
I never wished this on anyone. I didn’t light candles or send curses. I just stood in my truth. And Karma? She did the rest.
Final Word
My girl Karma?
She always knows where you live.
She never forgets a name.
And if you’ve got a debt with her—she’s gonna collect.
You can’t harvest what you didn’t sow.
You only reap what you plant.
And Karma?
She carries the water.
She feeds the soil.
And when the time is right, she collects every debt.
And if you’re lucky?
Sometimes—just sometimes—she lets you watch.
When it’s your turn to walk the path that shoe fits a little tighter.